Gossiping = murdering

hey.. look at the title and i bet you'll be wondering - pam must have gone crazy.

but.. i'm still very sober here. nothing to do with craziness. i've had this chat with a fren of mine, and to my surprise - he told me tat he gossips. well.. well.. many people do gossip.. but do yo know that gossiping is wrong?

if you think gossips is good.. do you like people to whisper while staring at you with disgusting looks in their eyes.. then later you realize that they have been gossiping on you? well.. yoiu may say, i don't spread rumours.. well.. then.. why gossip?

honestly, do you like me to gossip to my family and friends about your life? (whoever you are)

when you gossip a little here n there.. you're slowly , very slowly destroying the person's image (A) in the other person's eyes (B).. and so you're killing A in a subtle manner..in a very subliminal manner.. how is A supposed to stand before B in future?

so if gossiping is not murdering.. what is it?

The 10 commandments : Law number 6: "You shall not kill."